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In The Blissful Brain Dr Shanida Nataraja explores the extraordinary research that shows practices such as meditation, tai chi and yoga are not only helpful in reducing stress; they may actually be crucial for good health and optimal brain functioning.
From the effects of meditation on blood pressure and depression to the latest insights from brain imaging studies, this book reveals the The Blissful Brain scientific evidence that proves meditative practices should be at the very heart of our healthcare system. She is senior medical writer at a medical education agency and is a regular meditator and yoga practitioner.
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Before making any changes in your health regime, always consult a suitably qualified doctor. His support, and measured criticism, has kept me on my path and made the book what it is today. My warmest thanks also go to my mother, Kim, and my old friend, Sifu Dr Mark Green, both of whom contributed to and inspired me to write this book. Their impassioned application of contemplative practice to everyday modern life is an example for us all.
We sat on an post-doctoral position in the Department of Neuroscience at old sofa in the middle of a huge, largely empty, warehouse Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine.
Working in the space, as he attached an electrode to one of my fingers on my laboratory of Dr David Linden, I was attempting to unravel the left hand and fired up his laptop. Day after day situations or trains of thought. For the first time, I was able to was spent with my eye glued to a microscope, inserting tiny see an external visualization of what my state of mind was glass electrodes into slices of brain tissue, desperately hoping doing to my body, watching how different breathing techniques that, even under such unnatural conditions, some of the brain could lower the level of arousal, and thus release tension, and cells would still be alive and healthy and suitable subjects for how certain thought patterns could raise it and thus create experimental scrutiny.
Somewhere, deep within these slices of tension. The GSR acted like a mirror for my state of mind. I brain tissue, supposedly lay the key to understanding how we, gained conscious awareness of the constant state of arousal, or as humans, learn new behaviour, how we modify or abolish stress, in my body, and could test the effect that different existing behaviour, and how we store and recall learned relaxation techniques had on that level of stress and indeed my behaviour for, in some cases, the length of our lifetime.
The answers, at least to my own questions, internal state of mind. Although it of the human brain and how we think and act. The last 30 years have seen an ADHD at a young age, he was, like many others with this enormous leap in our understanding of the human brain and condition, incredibly bright, if a little unfocused. He had behaviour. In this quest, he had stumbled across underlying learning and memory, we have assigned individual technology that he claimed would not only allow him to combat aspects of behaviour to different regions of the brain, and we his ADHD, but would also allow anyone, in time, to enhance have sketched out some of the dynamic processes that give rise the performance of their brain, and thus their mind.
On that to the wealth of human behaviour. The s were designated 12 13 8. Slowly, we have gained a awareness and control over their behaviour.
I therefore set may also significantly reduce stress and produce substantial out to discover what these scientific findings reveal about health benefits. Stress, and stress-related diseases, place an human behaviour, and specifically what clues they provide increasing burden on our Western healthcare systems, and about how we could possibly improve the performance of our there is a clear need for a shift in our approach to health, both brains and so express more of our full potential as human as individuals and as a society.
The widespread acceptance of beings. This journey led to meditation. However, medical evidence expanding drugs.
Recent research has revealed processes in the suggests that meditation has measurable effects on stress human brain, and in the human mind, that appear to underlie levels, as well as reducing heart rate, blood pressure and the these routes to enhanced awareness.
Similar processes occur in risk of cardiovascular disease, and in boosting the immune the brain when a person meditates and when they engage in function, melatonin levels and psychological wellbeing. Not any ritualized behaviour, whether it be the repeating of a prayer only does this warrant increasing the provision of meditation or chanting at a football match.
In many cases, it has been training as part of patient care, but it also supports the possible to observe, in real time, the brain processes involved inclusion of meditation in our everyday lives, both as a in generating these altered states of consciousness, including preventative health strategy and as a means by which to realize mapping those that arise through meditation.
Countless contemplative traditions claim to teach methods of expanding awareness, gaining self-knowledge and realizing human potential. With advances in technology, these traditions have now come under scientific scrutiny, and a growing body of evidence points towards the benefit of regular meditation, and the role that it plays in enhancing human performance and maintaining good health and wellbeing.
Furthermore, as our 14 15 9. Not only does this have a negative to be considered a meditative discipline, a procedure must impact on our sense of wellbeing, but it also places an meet five essential criteria: increasing burden on our healthcare systems. We have seen a growing interest in practices such as meditation, tai chi, chi kung also referred to as qigong or chi There is an abundance of different meditative methods, but gung and yoga.
These disciplines appear to go some way chiefly they fall into one of two categories: top-down and towards offering an antidote for the stressful environment of bottom-up.
Top-down methods confer expanded awareness modern life, and are seen by many to be a useful adjunct to through relaxation of both the mind and body, and include such conventional patient care in a wide range of medical methods as meditation and contemplative prayer, whereas conditions. Although these practices are Eastern in origin, contemplative practice has centred on two meditative they have much in common with Western traditions of prayer techniques: transcendental meditation TM and mindfulness- and ritual.
Through this Meditation in the Buddhist tradition involves a process of research, it has become clear that the key to all of these intense concentration and attention to quiet the conscious meditative practices is attention. There are countless variations on this process, and most can only really be understood within the context of the particular culture in which they are practised. Dzogchen meditation as practised in Tibet, for example, differs Mindfulness-based stress reduction MBSR considerably from the method of the same name that has MBSR is a meditation technique first proposed by Jon gained popularity in the West in recent years.
However, all Kabat-Zinn and his colleagues in It has been meditative methods have common features, which provide us investigated as a possible therapeutic option in with a key to an appropriate definition of meditation. Is there a first dart in the coats and shoes on the sofa or the clutter covering the counter?
Do I have to get upset? Not really. I could ignore the stuff, pick it up calmly, or talk with them about it. Sometimes I manage to handle it that way. Saddest of all, some second-dart reactions are to conditions that are actually positive. Right there, needless second-dart suffering begins. Heating Up Suffering is not abstract or conceptual. Understanding the physical machinery of suffering will help you see it increasingly as an impersonal condition—unpleasant to be sure, but not worth getting upset about, which would just bring more second darts.
Suffering cascades through your body via the sympathetic nervous system SNS and the hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis HPAA of the endocrine hormonal system. Alarms Go Off Something happens. It might be a car suddenly cutting you off, a put-down from a coworker, or even just a worrisome thought. Social and emotional conditions can pack a wallop like physical ones since psychological pain draws on many of the same neural networks as physical pain Eisenberger and Lieberman ; this is why getting rejected can feel as bad as a root canal.
Even just anticipating a challenging event—such as giving a talk next week—can have as much impact as living through it for real. The SNS sends signals to the major organs and muscle groups in your body, readying them for fighting or fleeing. Ready for Action Within a second or two of the initial alarm, your brain is on red alert, your SNS is lit up like a Christmas tree, and stress hormones are washing through your blood.
Epinephrine increases your heart rate so your heart can move more blood and dilates your pupils so your eyes gather more light. Norepinephrine shunts blood to large muscle groups. Meanwhile, the bronchioles of your lungs dilate for increased gas exchange—enabling you to hit harder or run faster. Cortisol suppresses the immune system to reduce inflammation from wounds. Second, cortisol suppresses hippocampal activity which normally inhibits the amygdala ; this takes the brakes off the amygdala, leading to yet more cortisol.
The same for digestion: salivation decreases and peristalsis slows down, so your mouth feels dry and you become constipated. Your emotions intensify, organizing and mobilizing the whole brain for action.
Consequently, feeling stressed sets you up for fear and anger. As limbic and endocrine activation increases, the relative strength of executive control from the PFC declines. In the harsh physical and social environments in which we evolved, this activation of multiple bodily systems helped our ancestors survive.
Key Parts of Your Brain Each of these parts of your brain does many things; the functions listed here are those relevant to this book.
It continually shunts resources away from long-term projects—such as building a strong immune system or preserving a good mood—in favor of short-term crises.
And this has lasting consequences. But for people today who are interested in living well during their forties and beyond, the accumulating damage of an overheated life is a real concern.
The mental correlate of this physical process is an increasingly rapid arousal of state anxiety anxiety based on specific situations. Additionally, the amygdala helps form implicit memories traces of past experiences that exist beneath conscious awareness ; as it becomes more sensitized, it increasingly shades those residues with fear, thus intensifying trait anxiety ongoing anxiety regardless of the situation.
Cortisol and related glucocorticoid hormones both weaken existing synaptic connections in the hippocampus and inhibit the formation of new ones. Further, the hippocampus is one of the few regions in the human brain that can actually grow new neurons—yet glucocorticoids prevent the birth of neurons in the hippocampus, impairing its ability to produce new memories.
This may help explain why victims of trauma can feel dissociated from the awful things they experienced, yet be very reactive to any trigger that reminds them unconsciously of what once occurred. In less extreme situations, the one-two punch of a revved-up amygdala and a weakened hippocampus can lead to feeling a little upset a lot of the time without exactly knowing why. Reduced norepinephrine may cause you to feel flat— even apathetic—with poor concentration; these are classic symptoms of depression.
Over time, glucocorticoids lower the production of dopamine. Stress reduces serotonin, probably the most important neurotransmitter for maintaining a good mood. When serotonin drops, so does norepinephrine, which has already been diminished by glucocorticoids. In short, less serotonin means more vulnerability to a blue mood and less alert interest in the world. An Intimate Process Of course, our experience of these physiological processes is very intimate.
But having a general idea of them in the back of my mind helps me appreciate the sheer physicality of a second dart cascade, its impersonal nature and dependence on preceding causes, and its impermanence. This understanding is hopeful and motivating. And you can change those causes. But the SNS is just one of the three wings of the autonomic nervous system ANS , which operates mostly below the level of consciousness to regulate many bodily systems and their responses to changing conditions.
The other two wings of the ANS are the parasympathetic nervous system PNS and the enteric nervous system which regulates your gastrointestinal system. The PNS conserves energy in your body and is responsible for ongoing, steady-state activity.
These two wings of the ANS are connected like a seesaw: when one goes up, the other one goes down. Parasympathetic activation is the normal resting state of your body, brain, and mind. Sympathetic activation is a change to the baseline of PNS equilibrium in order to respond to a threat or an opportunity.
The cooling, steadying influence of the PNS helps you think clearly and avoid hot- headed actions that would harm you or others.
The PNS also quiets the mind and fosters tranquility, which supports contemplative insight. We need both of them. For example, take five breaths, inhaling and exhaling a little more fully than usual. This is both energizing and relaxing, activating first the sympathetic system and then the parasympathetic one, back and forth, in a gentle rhythm.
That combination of aliveness and centeredness is the essence of the peak performance zone recognized by athletes, businesspeople, artists, lovers, and meditators. Of course, it takes practice. A Path of Practice As the saying goes, pain is inevitable but suffering is optional. In the meantime, you can rest in and be nourished by a growing sense of the peace and clarity in your true nature. These three processes—being with whatever arises, working with the tendencies of mind to transform them, and taking refuge in the ground of being—are the essential practices of the path of awakening.
In many ways they correspond, respectively, to mindfulness, virtue, and wisdom—and to the three fundamental neural functions of learning, regulating, and selecting. In education, these are known succinctly as unconscious incompetence, conscious incompetence, conscious competence, and unconscious competence. The second stage is the hardest one, and often where we want to quit. It takes effort and time to clear old structures and build new ones. I call this the law of little things: although little moments of greed, hatred, and delusion have left residues of suffering in your mind and brain, lots of little moments of practice will replace these Three Poisons and the suffering they cause with happiness, love, and wisdom.
When we react to a first dart with one or more of the Three Poisons of greed, hatred, and delusion broadly defined —each one of which has craving at its center—we start throwing second darts at ourselves and others.
In fact, we often toss second darts even when no first dart is to be found. Most poignantly, we sometimes throw second darts as a reaction to situations that are actually good, such as receiving a compliment. Suffering is deeply embodied. Physical reactions involving your sympathetic nervous system SNS and hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis HPAA cause suffering to snowball throughout your body.
Most people experience chronic second-dart cascades, with numerous negative consequences for their physical and mental health.
The best-odds prescription for a long, good life is a baseline of mainly PNS arousal with mild SNS activation for vitality, combined with occasional SNS spikes for major opportunities or threats. Being with whatever arises, working with the tendencies of mind to transform them, and taking refuge in the ground of being are the essential practices of the path of awakening. In many ways, these practices correspond, respectively, to mindfulness, virtue, and wisdom.
On the path of awakening, keep going! Lots of little moments of practice will gradually and truly increase your contentment, kindness, and insight.
The flow of experience gradually sculpts your brain, thus shaping your mind. Some of the results can be explicitly recalled: This is what I did last summer; that is how I felt when I was in love. But most of the shaping of your mind remains forever unconscious. This is called implicit memory, and it includes your expectations, models of relationships, emotional tendencies, and general outlook.
Implicit memory establishes the interior landscape of your mind—what it feels like to be you—based on the slowly accumulating residues of lived experience. In a sense, those residues can be sorted into two piles: those that benefit you and others, and those that cause harm.
Consequently, even when positive experiences outnumber negative ones, the pile of negative implicit memories naturally grows faster. Then the background feeling of what it feels like to be you can become undeservedly glum and pessimistic.
Sure, negative experiences do have benefits: loss opens the heart, remorse provides a moral compass, anxiety alerts you to threats, and anger spotlights wrongs that should be righted.
Emotional pain with no benefit to yourself or others is pointless suffering. And pain today breeds more pain tomorrow. For instance, even a single episode of major depression can reshape circuits of the brain to make future episodes more likely Maletic et al.
The remedy is not to suppress negative experiences; when they happen, they happen. Rather, it is to foster positive experiences—and in particular, to take them in so they become a permanent part of you. Turn positive facts into positive experiences. Someone is nice to you, you see an admirable quality in yourself, a flower is blooming, you finish a difficult project—and it all just rolls by. Instead, actively look for good news, particularly the little stuff of daily life: the faces of children, the smell of an orange, a memory from a happy vacation, a minor success at work, and so on.
Whatever positive facts you find, bring a mindful awareness to them—open up to them and let them affect you. Savor the experience. The longer that something is held in awareness and the more emotionally stimulating it is, the more neurons that fire and thus wire together, and the stronger the trace in memory Lewis Focus on your emotions and body sensations, since these are the essence of implicit memory.
Let the experience fill your body and be as intense as possible. For example, if someone is good to you, let the feeling of being cared about bring warmth to your whole chest. Pay particular attention to the rewarding aspects of the experience—for example, how good it feels to get a great big hug from someone you love. Focusing on these rewards increases dopamine release, which makes it easier to keep giving the experience your attention, and strengthens its neural associations in implicit memory.
You can also intensify an experience by deliberately enriching it. Or you could strengthen your feelings of satisfaction after completing a demanding project by thinking about some of the challenges you had to overcome. Keep relaxing your body and absorbing the emotions, sensations, and thoughts of the experience.
When two things are held in mind at the same time, they start to connect with each other. Using the Machinery of Memory These mental minglings draw on the neural machinery of memory. When a memory—whether implicit or explicit—is made, only its key features are stored, not every single detail.
For example, remember an experience, even a recent one, and notice how schematic your recollection is, with the main features sketched in but many details left out. Your brain rebuilds implicit and explicit memories from their key features, drawing on its simulating capacities to fill in missing details. This rebuilding process gives you the opportunity, right down in the micro-circuitry of your brain, to gradually shift the emotional shadings of your interior landscape.
When a memory is activated, a large-scale assembly of neurons and synapses forms an emergent pattern. Then, when the memory leaves awareness, it will be reconsolidated in storage along with those other associations. The next time the memory is activated, it will tend to bring those associations with it. Thus, if you repeatedly bring to mind negative feelings and thoughts while a memory is active, then that memory will be increasingly shaded in a negative direction.
For example, recalling an old failure while simultaneously lambasting yourself will make that failure seem increasingly awful. On the other hand, if you call up positive emotions and perspectives while implicit or explicit memories are active, these wholesome influences will slowly be woven into the fabric of those memories.
Every time you do this—every time you sift positive feelings and views into painful, limiting states of mind—you build a little bit of neural structure. Over time, the accumulating impact of this positive material will literally, synapse by synapse, change your brain. Lifelong Learning Neural circuits started forming before you were born, and your brain will keep learning and changing up to your very last breath.
Humans have the longest childhood of any animal on the planet. Since children are very vulnerable in the wild, there must have been a large evolutionary payoff in giving the brain an extended period of intense development. Of course, learning continues after childhood; we continually acquire new skills and knowledge all the way into old age. After he turned 90, my dad made my jaw drop with an article in which he calculated the best odds for different bids in bridge; there are lots of similar examples.
Usually, the results are tiny, incremental alternations in neural structure that add up as the years go by. Occasionally, the results are dramatic—for example, in blind people, some occipital regions designed for visual processing can be rezoned for auditory functions Begley Mental activity shapes neural structure in a variety of ways: Neurons that are particularly active become even more responsive to input.
Busy neural networks receive increased blood flow, which supplies them with more glucose and oxygen. Inactive synapses wither away through neuronal pruning, a kind of survival of the busiest: use it or lose it. A toddler has about three times as many synapses as an adult; on the way to adulthood, adolescents can lose up to 10, synapses per second in the prefrontal cortex PFC Spear Brand new neurons grow in the hippocampus; this neurogenesis increases the openness of memory networks to new learning Gould et al.
Emotional arousal facilitates learning by increasing neural excitation and consolidating synaptic change Lewis Because of all the ways your brain changes its structure, your experience matters beyond its momentary, subjective impact. It makes enduring changes in the physical tissues of your brain which affect your well-being, functioning, and relationships.
Based on science, this is a fundamental reason for being kind to yourself, cultivating wholesome experiences, and taking them in. Pulling Weeds and Planting Flowers To gradually replace negative implicit memories with positive ones, just make the positive aspects of your experience prominent and relatively intense in the foreground of your awareness while simultaneously placing the negative material in the background.
Imagine that the positive contents of your awareness are sinking down into old wounds, soothing chafed and bruised places like a warm golden salve, filling up hollows, slowly replacing negative feelings and beliefs with positive ones. People sometimes get angry with themselves about still being affected by things from the past. But remember: the brain is designed to change through experiences, especially negative ones; we learn from our experiences, particularly those that happened during childhood, and it is natural for that learning to stick with us.
Upsets are like that, too. So sense down into the youngest, most vulnerable, most emotionally charged layers of your mind, and feel around for the tip of the root of whatever is bothering you.
These deep sources might include feeling unwanted by others due to being unpopular in school, a sense of helplessness from a chronic illness, or mistrust of intimacy following a bad divorce. When you find the tip of the root, take in the good that will gradually dislodge its hold upon you.
Painful experiences are often best healed by positive ones that are their opposite—for example, replacing childhood feelings of being weak with a current sense of strength.
If sadness from mistreatment in an old relationship keeps coming up, recall being loved by other people, and let those feelings sink in. The art is to find a balance in which you remain mindful, accepting, and curious regarding difficult experiences—while also taking in supportive feelings and thoughts. In sum, infuse positive material into negative material in these two ways: When you have a positive experience today, help it sink in to old pains.
When negative material arises, bring to mind the positive emotions and perspectives that will be its antidote. Whenever you use one of these methods, try to feel and take in related positive experiences at least a couple more times within the following hour.
When the results turn out to be good—as they most likely will—take them in and slowly but surely clear out those old fears. Most of the time, taking in the good takes less than a minute—often, just a few seconds. But over time, you really can build new, positive structures in your brain. Focusing on what is wholesome and then taking it in naturally increases the positive emotions flowing through your mind each day.
Emotions have global effects since they organize the brain as a whole. Consequently, positive feelings have far-reaching benefits, including a stronger immune system Frederickson and a cardiovascular system that is less reactive to stress Frederickson and Levenson They lift your mood; increase optimism, resilience, and resourcefulness; and help counteract the effects of painful experiences, including trauma Frederickson ; Frederickson et al.
These benefits apply to children as well. In particular, taking in the good has a special payoff for kids at either the spirited or the anxious end of the temperament spectrum. Spirited children usually zip along to the next thing before good feelings have a chance to consolidate in the brain, and anxious children tend to ignore or downplay good news.
And some kids are both spirited and anxious. Whatever their temperament, if children are part of your life, encourage them to pause for a moment at the end of the day or at any other natural interval, such as the last minute before the school bell to remember what went well and think about things that make them happy e. Then have those positive feelings and thoughts sink in. In terms of spiritual practice, taking in the good highlights key states of mind, such as kindness and inner peace, so you can find your way back to them again.
It is rewarding, and this helps keep you on the path of awakening, which does sometimes feel like an uphill slog. It builds conviction and faith by showing you the results of your efforts.
It nourishes wholeheartedness through its emphasis on positive, heartfelt emotions—and when your own heart is full, you have more to offer to others. Taking in the good is not about putting a happy shiny face on everything, nor is it about turning away from the hard things in life.
Implicit memories are residues of past experiences that largely remain below awareness but powerfully shape the inner landscape and atmosphere of your mind. Unfortunately, the bias of the brain tilts implicit memories in a negative direction, even when most of your experiences are actually positive. The first remedy is to consciously look for and take in positive experiences.
There are three simple steps: turn positive facts into positive experiences, savor these experiences, and sense them sinking in. When experiences are consolidated in memory, they take with them whatever else is also in awareness, especially if it is intense. You can use this mechanism to infuse positive material into negative material; this is the second remedy. Use this method in two ways: when you have a positive experience, help it sink into, soothe, and replace old pains; when negative material arises, bring to mind emotions and perspectives that are its antidote.
Become aware of the deep roots of recurring upsets; the tips of these roots are typically lodged in childhood experiences; different upsets may have different roots. Deliberately direct positive experiences toward these roots in order to pull them out completely and stop them from growing back. Every time you take in the good, you build a little bit of neural structure. Doing this a few times a day—for months and even years—will gradually change your brain, and how you feel and act, in far-reaching ways.
It builds up positive emotions, with many benefits for your physical and mental health. And it aids spiritual practice by supporting motivation, conviction, and wholeheartedness. The mind has found its way to peace. The Buddha Cullavagga Then we feel driven, rattled, stressed, irritated, anxious, or blue. Definitely not happy. We need to lower the flames. This chapter will cover many ways to do just that.
Activating the Parasympathetic Nervous System Your body has numerous major systems, including the endocrine hormone , cardiovascular, immune, gastrointestinal, and nervous systems.
This is because the ANS—which is part of the larger nervous system—is intertwined with and helps regulate every other system. And mental activity has greater direct influence over the ANS than any other bodily system. When you stimulate the parasympathetic wing of the ANS, calming, soothing, healing ripples spread through your body, brain, and mind. Relaxation Relaxing engages the circuitry of the PNS and thus strengthens it. Relaxing also quiets the fight-or-flight sympathetic nervous system, since relaxed muscles send feedback to the alarm centers in the brain that all is well.
In fact, the relaxation response may actually alter how your genes are expressed, and thus reduce the cellular damage of chronic stress Dusek et al. First, here are four quick ones: Relax your tongue, eyes, and jaw muscles. Feel tension draining out of your body and sinking down into the earth. Run warm water over your hands. Scan your body for areas that are tense, and relax them. The diaphragm is the muscle beneath your lungs that helps you breathe; actively working it is particularly effective for reducing anxiety.
Place your hand on your stomach a couple of inches beneath the upside-down V at the center of your rib cage. Look down, breathe normally, and watch your hand.
Leaving your hand in place, now breathe in such a way that your hand moves out and back, perpendicular to your chest. Try to breathe into your hand with real oomph, so that it travels back and forth half an inch or more with each breath. Next, try diaphragm breathing without your hand so you can use this method, if you like, in public settings. Depending on how much time you have, you might focus on large sections of your body—e.
In order to relax a part of your body, simply bring it into awareness; for example, take a moment right now to notice the sensations in the bottom of your left foot. Or locate a point or a space in that part. Whatever works best. For many people, progressive relaxation is also a great method for falling asleep.
Big Exhalation Inhale as much as you can, hold that inhalation for a few seconds, and then exhale slowly while relaxing. A big inhalation really expands your lungs, requiring a big exhalation to bring the lungs back to their resting size. This stimulates the PNS, which is in charge of exhaling. Touching the Lips Parasympathetic fibers are spread throughout your lips; thus, touching your lips stimulates the PNS. Touching your lips can also bring up soothing associations of eating or even of breastfeeding when you were a baby.
You may have already had some practice with mindfulness of the body e. Mindfulness just means being fully aware of something, in the moment with it, and not judging or resisting it. For example, notice the sensations of breathing, the cool air coming in and the warm air going out, the chest and belly rising and falling.
Or the sensations of walking, reaching, or swallowing. Following even a single breath from beginning to end—or a single step on the way to work—can be remarkably centering and calming. Imagery Although mental activity is commonly equated with verbal thought, most of the brain is actually devoted to nonverbal activities, such as processing mental pictures.
Imagery activates the right hemisphere of the brain and quiets internal verbal chatter that could be stressful. Then, when you have more time at home, you might visualize walking around the lake, and enrich your mental movie with the good smells of pine needles or the sound of children laughing.
Balance Your Heartbeat A regular heart rate has small changes in the interval between each beat; this is called heart rate variability HRV. For example, if your heart beat sixty times in a minute, the time between beats would average one second. But your heart is not a mechanical metronome, and the interval between beats is continually changing: it could be something like 1 sec.
HRV reflects the activity of the autonomic nervous system. Stress, negative emotions, and aging all decrease HRV, and people with relatively low HRV are less likely to recover after a heart attack Kristal-Boneh, et al. The evidence is preliminary, but studies have shown that learning to increase the amount and coherence of HRV is associated with decreased stress, and improved cardiovascular health, immune system function, and mood Luskin, et al.
HRV is a good indicator of parasympathetic arousal and overall well-being, and you can change it directly. Breathe in such a way that your inhalation and exhalation are the same duration; for example, count one, two, three, four in your mind while inhaling, and one, two, three, four while exhaling.
As you breathe evenly through your heart, call to mind a pleasant, heartfelt emotion such as gratitude, kindness, or love—perhaps by thinking about a happy time, being with your children, appreciation for the good things in your life, or a pet.
You can also imagine this feeling moving through your heart as part of the breath. Meditation Meditation activates the PNS through multiple pathways. These include withdrawing attention from stressful matters, relaxing, and bringing awareness into the body.
The following box describes a basic mindfulness meditation. The key to reaping the rewards of meditation is to develop a regular, daily practice, no matter how brief. How about making a personal commitment never to go to sleep without having meditated that day, even if for just one minute? Also consider joining a regular meditation group in your area. Find a posture that is both relaxed and alert, with your spine reasonably straight. As the Zen saying suggests, you should handle your mind like the skillful rider of a horse, with neither too tight nor too loose a rein.
Meditate for as long as you like. You can start with shorter periods, even just five minutes. Longer sittings, from thirty to sixty minutes, will usually help you go deeper.
Alternately, you could set a timer. Feel free to modify the suggestions that follow. Take a big breath and relax, with your eyes open or closed. Be aware of sounds coming and going, and let them be whatever they are. Know that you are taking this time to meditate. You can drop all other concerns during this period, like setting down a heavy bag before plopping into a comfortable chair. After the meditation, you can pick those concerns up again—if you want to!
Bring your awareness to the sensations of breathing. Sense the cool air coming in and warm air going out.
The chest and belly rising and falling. Try to stay with the sensations of each breath from beginning to end. Be gentle and kind with yourself. See if you can stay attentive to ten breaths in a row usually a challenge at first. After your mind settles down during the first minutes of the meditation, explore becoming increasingly absorbed in the breath and letting go of everything else. Open to the simple pleasures of breathing, given over to the breath. With some practice, see if you can stay present with the breath for dozens of breaths in a row.
Using the breath as a kind of anchor, be aware of whatever else is moving through the mind. Aware of thoughts and feelings, wishes and plans, images and memories—all coming and going. Have a sense of acceptance—even kindness—toward whatever passes through the open space of awareness.
Keep settling into the breath, perhaps with a growing sense of peacefulness. Be aware of the changing nature of what passes through the mind. Notice how it feels to get caught up in the passing contents of awareness—and how it feels to let them go by.
Be aware of peaceful, spacious awareness itself. When you like, bring the meditation to an end. Notice how you feel, and take in the good of your meditation. Feeling Safer b s. When any are detected, your stress-response system fires up.
The anxiety that results is unnecessary and unpleasant, and it primes your brain and body to overreact to small things. Additionally, vigilance and anxiety draw attention away from mindfulness and contemplative absorption.
But before we explore specific methods for feeling safer, two important points. First, in ordinary reality, there is no such thing as complete safety. Life is continually changing, cars run red lights, people get sick, and whole nations erupt and send shock waves around the world. There is no absolutely stable ground, no perfect shelter.
Accepting this truth is wisdom, and embracing it and getting on with life can feel exhilarating. Second, for some people—especially those with a history of trauma—reducing anxiety can seem threatening, since lowering their guard makes them feel vulnerable. Relax Your Body Relaxation drains away anxiety like pulling the plug in a bathtub.
See the methods described earlier in this chapter. Use Imagery Right hemisphere imagery is closely connected with emotional processing.
To feel safer, visualize protective figures with you, such as a beloved grandmother or a guardian angel. Physical and emotional closeness to caregivers and other members of the band was a necessity for survival during our evolutionary history.
Consequently, activating a felt sense of closeness will probably help you feel safer. Bring Mindfulness to Fear Anxiety, dread, apprehension, worry, and even panic are just mental states like any other.
Recognize fear when it arises, observe the feeling of it in your body, watch it try to convince you that you should be alarmed, see it change and move on. Notice how the awareness which contains fear is itself never fearful. Keep separating from the fear; settle back into the vast space of awareness through which fear passes like a cloud. Evoke Inner Protectors Enabled by the distributed network of the nervous system, different subpersonalities interact dynamically to form the seemingly monolithic but actually fragmented self.
It does not flatter you or make things up. It is grounded in reality, like a solid, caring, no-nonsense teacher or coach who reminds you of good things about you and the world while telling mean people to back off and leave you alone. G rowing up, many of us felt let down by people who should have been better protectors.
What you can do today is pay particular attention to the experience of being with strong people who care for you and stand up for you; savor this experience and take it in.
Imagine, and perhaps write down, a conversation between an inner protector and a critical or alarming subpersonality, and make sure that the inner protector makes a powerful case for you. Be Realistic Draw on prefrontal capacities to evaluate: What is the chance that the feared event will happen? How bad would it be? Featured in:. Take the Self-Care Quiz. Take the Quiz. Hi, I'm Catherine. Get to know me. Where To Start.
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